Hi All, I have been posting rarely in this forum. As I mentioned in my previous post, I am having a challenging married life because of my inlaws. Initially it was MIL, BIL playing around, DH dancing to their tunes. After BILs marriage some sense has gone into DH's head and things were little better. I have 1.5 yr old dd and I am working. Since the time I came back post delivery there has been one issue or the other created indirectly. So its like a daily challenge. Once it will be with taking care of my dd, other time it will be because of brain washing dh or if nothing works out, silently and indirectly showing hatred towards me by MIL. I learnt to ignore all this nonsense. She tried her level best to make me quit the job. Luckily DH also is not in favor of this. So I am saved. MIL hates me at each and every step which I dont care. She tries to put me down by being nice with my cosis. Back talks about me to her relatives and maid. Puts all stupid things into my husbands head. So far I have let go things for my own peace. Not I am not sure if its because of my postpartum (will it last this long?) I am getting angry and irritated with all the things happening around. So much that sometimes i confronted my husband on few things which i never did before. I am showing the anger by reciprocating the things they do to me. Now last week I had been to my moms house for a couple of days.MIL made faces and started showing her crooked behavior as usual. I was extremely angry with her, so much that I left some eatable which she gave me to give it to my mom. Initially H was ok with the plan (He doesnt appreciate me going over there), but just the day before I went he was very angry with me(Some background music played by MIL surely). So much he did not prefer to have dinner with me. He was so rude when I was leaving the house. Again I got so angry that even I did not call him for two days. During this episode, I got know through his whatsapp messages from his bro that BIL purchased a house in abroad and they have shared all the pics to him and ILs. Cosis told me about this. Neither MIL nor H told me about this. I really dont know what MIL thinks of me. Now putting all this together I am so pissed off that I am also giving dead silent treatment to my husband which he usually does to me. I am skipping all the house chores which I usually do. I am just taking care of my dd and nothing else. He had plans of going out station for a days visit. I did not even ask him when he will come back. He is surprised by my attitude now. I am giving a damn to everyone at home. I dont know if all this is for good or not. But for now I have chosen to be like this. One thing is for sure, I am not craving for anybodys attention/affection now. I was damn happy while at moms house. Roamed around, did shopping,, had fun with siblings and their kids. Have I picked up the right battle here? The fight mode will be on only if I open the discussion with my H which I dont want to. Because obviously it is of no use. Am I going wrong somewhere? Is there anything else which I can do?