So my husband is a Mum mas boy since our marriage of 15 years now . Yes 15 years and things have been getting worse with him . My inlaws and my Sil like to fetch money , and make him emotional guilty about everything . They know his weak nerve is them and they use it to the BEST . They also know that I know they try to use us and now they stay away from me and not even talk to me much.I'm happy this way BUT my husband keep bringing trouble in my life all the time in relation to inlaws. So much so that i actually feel that the blame should go to him for this entire mess up where my inlaws and I dnt get along and my MIL/SIL have the guts to say anything related to my parents/ girl/boy thing on my face . If my husband was not that mummas boy , they would have respected me more because they would know that there would be consequences of all these things .But now they know that no matter what their son will not say anything and will always take their side all the time So now , my husband wants to get my inlaws Green card done . his parents are enjoying their life, when they come here all they want to do is go around the world ,create troubles in our daily lifes and just complicate small little things in the house . I think thy have nothing else to do so all this happens and i already have a very busy life , i struggle dy to day basis with kids, job , cooking etc and on top of it they add their nuisances he always gives me this reason that he wants to take care when they are old. Which i have agreed to but i feel right now is not the age. Right now, they create more complexities and are very demanding . He does not say this directly but he keeps pointing that he wants to spend time with them but when i ask him to tell him clearly that his reason of bringing them permanently is that they are old or he wants t spend time , then he does not agree about the later as it hurts his male ego . because of this we are having so much fights, argument, discussions in our home and its killing me inside out. I try to tell him in many words as to why his mom is very dominating and at this age she wnt bend in and it will create more troubles for us .This leads to me telling him a lot of details about his mom and sister and how and what they do to me . Ocourse he wnt like it and he starts defending them immediately and i get super angry that how is he defending his mom all the time and what will happen when they move here and he will just support whatever they say or do .This all thing is getting very complicated and i'm loosing ll my respect for him .I already know that he always covers up his parents and they are always right and his logics get all messed up when it comes to protecting his mom and sister . Now its getting very upsetting and i have so much anger in my heart more for him that his mom and sister .As i said i have t believe that he is the cause of them being able to say anything to me than anyone else . I have even agreed to move them in but i'm worried that he will burn me out a lot .He has very high expectation of me doing stuff for them and kids spending time with them .So basically , he just drags all of us with him and it makes it very difficult. Basically he is a very emotional person and want to do the best for his parents and make sure kids spend time with his parents not caring about if they feel the same for me and kids .This is driving me crazy and i want to pen this down to him and dnt knw of words that will get my points without any fights .Help me Girls !