I have upcoming India trip after a long time . Last few years have been really tough on me with my husband going through long phase of unemployment and my health problems. This is the longest vacation I’m taking from work after zillion years . Now I really want to relax during this trip . I already informed my in-laws about the same and they are very understanding. My goal is to shutdown myself from cooking , cleaning and absolutely no arguments with anyone . Now there is problem and I want to know how to dodge it . I bought a house back when I was working in India . My brother bought a plot next to it . My brother is well off and he lives in 3 bed room apartment in posh locality . Now my brother wants to build house in this lot . When he checked with builder he asked about the adjoining house ( mine is really old) and once all details were shared builder gave him an idea to join both and build a 2 floor home . My brother is ready to invest all the money for the project and give me floor upstairs while he will take the down one . My husband is also on board for this but I’m the only one who isn’t . Honestly my idea is to sell it and use money for retirement home later on . The house isn’t old and that is my den when I go to India. I really don’t want to share the property since it is going to take away my ownership. It was all the savings I have got back home . My brother is investing because his property is too small to build a home size he wants . Now the discussion has come up asking for power of attorney . I deserve a peaceful trip . My husband says why not . I really want to dodge this since I’m not sure how I want to use it . I feel it is my right why should I share the property . In future we can never sell it . My husband thinks I’m being unreasonable without any logic . Any inputs .