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Positive update on my earlier thread" arranging a marriage alliance'

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by joylokhi, Feb 2, 2016.

  1. Rihana

    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    I was going to pull your leg a little bit.. that the lucky girl gets a seasoned MIL who has read and participated in IL...... :) but had second-thoughts on its propriety and just clicked Like.

    Congratulations! It is indeed a big milestone and perhaps a relief too to see child settling.
     
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    periamma IL Hall of Fame

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    congratulations Joylokhi and my best wishes to the couple.
     
  3. joylokhi

    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    Dear Viswa sir,
    i had you in mind when i posted the update as you had mentioned in reply to my earlier post that u would also soon be in my position of bride hunting. My advance best wishes to you and your family in this regard.
     
  4. joylokhi

    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi rihana,
    thanks again. Yes as you know, i follow a lot of the relationship columns and i would say although i consider myself truly openminded, IL has definitely played a role in understanding the other person's point of view also.
     
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    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    @periamma,
    thanks for the wishes.
     
  6. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Joy dear though you had given like to my feedback, you did not mention my name, I thought you will be replying separately, hope I have not mentioned anything wrong. I know by mistake you must have forgot to mention my name.
     
  7. joylokhi

    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    Dear viji maami,
    yes I definitely intended to reply separately. What u have said about children wanting to have and live their own lives without too much interference from parents/ in laws is very true. That's why we were quite ok with our elder son settling into his own flat with his wife and son, although we are both in the same city. We continue to have a very good relationship with our son and DIL and hope for the same with our to be DIL.
    Thanks again for your good wishes and thoughts.
     
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  8. sangeethakripa

    sangeethakripa Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Joylokhi

    Hearty Wishes for you & your family.
     
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    joylokhi Platinum IL'ite

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    Thank you sangeethakripa.
     
  10. murphybaby77

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    Dear Joylokhi,
    congratulations.vazgha valamudan.
    poorni
     

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