If one cares for other then it's a show off if not then it's irresponsible behavior. Today the love is judged by your image in others eyes that depends on how they feel about you which further depends on their perspective. Everyone will prove other wrong and will praise other only to show their kindness as if they are accepting the others unacceptable behavior. Say the worst thing with softness and kindness and if someone say in between then show your kindness with anger and force the other to accept that you are kind enough.