Dear Friends, I am a newcomer to this website. I have read some of the posts here and the responses that others give to people in need. I need help too ladies. This is for my best friend. She got married a little over a year ago. It was an arranged marriage.The first couple of weeks were ok in her married life. Her husband was working in London. So she had to join him there. Her problems slowly started in the form of her inlaws who are very possessive of their son. They kept calling my friend and her husband at odd times like the middle of the night and kept talking to him for hours. She was like any other newlywed girl wanting her husbands attention. Her husband was not interested in any activites involving her. Life went on like this for few mths, my friend found herself a job there. they were constanly having arguments and difference of opinions mainly because of his parents. Things started getting out of control and now he has started threatening her and abusing her physically. The most sad part in this is they have not had any sexual interaction at all. what kind of a man is he? my friend does not know what to do. she is planning to come to india in december, but is also afraid for her life there until then. she is not at all interested in continuing this relationship. her parents are so worried and scared for her life. Pls help ladies, I suggested that she should try counseling and medical help for his problems. What should she do. If you all know any counselors in india pls pm me. I will let u know the city in the pm. I need help in advicing her. Pls help. thanks, Sakti.