Perfect Match

Hi ansh,
Myriad of thanks for ur feedback and appreciation.Definitely anitha must have liked something in the man which made her to accept the proposal.So what abt her silly attitude of the past.She decides for an important moment in her life which does not match with her behavior,attitude and activities. Upto now she is troubling herself,giving unfavourable ,negative comments to others on account of their day today activities.That is not needed.

I repeat ur words
Choosing inanimate things and matching them is different from choosing the life-partner. One has to look with a different perspective.

Superb.I agree with u totally.Our attitude towards attending day to day routine activities is entirely different from the decision taken for a major moment in life.These things are manageable.I insist on the attitude of anitha ,whether she decided right or not?,whether she will go fine after her marriage.The answer can be either yes or no.Both are possible.External circumstances won't affect the relationship but whether she will be internally(mentally) compatible is the subject matter of discussion.........

Thanks again for ur nice feedback............
Take care
BC

 

Hi dear mals,
Thanks for stepping in.

U said abt the hidden aspect of the post.According to me the hidden thing is abt anitha’s decision in her marriage proposal.That is what I lay emphasis on it.

Almost about ninety percent of the people maintain orderliness and cleanliness in their house while some don’t lay much importance to it. Anitha is a perfectionist .Very true.If that is only the problem then that is not at all an issue .As I said in the first few lines we don’t need to rely on it totally.Anitha gave her total self towards spending her life on these little things.Most people has a good taste for things ,anitha too has a taste which she maintains but it goes on a higher frequency .Everybody wish to move things perfectly in life but not to the extent of suggesting and giving lecture on it and her activities are obviously notable to others which has been proved by the reaction of her relations, friends etc


I repeat urwords

ANITHA, KEEPS HER TOWEL IN THE RIGHT PLACE, HER MEDICINES IN THE RIGHT CHEST AND NOW SHE CHOSE A GROOM IN THE RIGHT ORDER. FOR HER, PUTTING THINGS IN ORDER WAS NOT THE OUTWARD LOOK THAT GIVES, BUT EACH THING HAS ITS OWN PLACE.

Putting things in order is not the case but expecting each and every moment and not relaxing rules atleast for a second is the subject matter of discussion.Everybody works for their inner satisfaction,we should be perfect but we cannot expect the same from others.


THAT FUNNY LOOKING GUY BROUGHT MUCH SATISFACTION TO HER AND GAVE HER THE RIGHT BALANCE IN LIFE AND SO SHE DECIDED TO HAVE HIM AS HER HUSBAND.

If you go to my reply to the previous posts ,I said that anitha suddenly changing her taste and requirements suddenly may not be the case.Whether her idea of perfectness and mental satisfaction worked out in marriage?

On the very first sight,what others would feel is she would chosen a better groom.But we live for ourself.On the bottom line one fact which is clearly visible is the practical aspects and reality of life dominates our dreams,expectations.

Thanks a ton for ur feedback.You have made this thread interesting

 

Dear roopadadia,
Thanks for stepping in.Not sure whether anitha realized or taken a decision which is favourable to her.

I can understand almost what u are saying .But still could not exactly catch up ur second sentence.Which situation is vice versa???

Regards
BC

 

Dear roopa,
Thanks for clarifying.Bow
Take care
BC