No matter what I cook..only outside food she likes.. Clothes will be on the restroom floor despite having two laundary bags.. Struggle to wake up and do so basic chores like brushing and showering.. Room cleaning..cajoled,taken away privileges,sometimes yelled,Been calm etc.. No it will be dirty.. Always forgetting to put snacks or food playe in the sink.. Am so bloody frustrated and tired!! I do so much and tell firmly to tidy up and everytime there is so much fight and anger and finally do it maybe for two days and then back to square one!! I don’t have any energy..When I see homes of other people always clean and they have energy to go out and also do office work and calm around kids..I feel like a bloody failure.. I try but nothing is working..I feel like a terrible mom.. Only thing is she is quite good in studies ..rest nope! How do I put things in perspective!