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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by ashwinid01, Sep 26, 2012.

  1. ashwinid01

    ashwinid01 Gold IL'ite

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    If we apply this in our lives, i bet it will be much better and calmer..

    "You need to STOP doing things for someone, when you find out it is EXPECTED rather than APPRECIATED "
     
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    I agree with you. It means quite a lot specially for most of the times we end up doing so much for others. When we are appreciated, we feel happy that we did something good, but if there is only expectation, then it just not worth it.
     
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    Hmmm. Nice quote but applicable????
    I am expected to serve lunch to my MIL. I am never appreciated for it. Can I stop? (this is just an example)
     
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    Hi Moni
    It's true,but let's try our luck.
    Prema Barani
     
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    May not be possible everywhere.. But should try wherever possible...
    Ex: You are expected to give a midnight call to wish ur relative a Happy Birthday... If they appreciate it, its worth.. But if they complain when u dont call in midnight but some time in morning or evening then definitely there's no need...
     
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    "If everyone is happy with U
    then surely U have made many compromises in Ur life,
    if U r happy with everyone surely U have ignored many faults of others.
    "
     
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