Hi, I have a personal problem which I cannot share with anyone. I got married last month and back from honeymoon. We could not do IC at all because my DH is not able to put in as it is very small. We tried nearly ten times but its too small to go in and slips away. I have heard from my married friends that it will be really big and will be painful when it enters our opening in the initial stages. But in my case, its the other way. I am not able to feel anything when he enters and within few seconds it slips away. Is there a way to make it big? My close friend asked me to massage and stroke it but I don't feel like doing it. Its just one month and I feel embarassed to ask him about this. I had too many dreams and I am shattered now. Can anyone tell me what could be the reason and how to overcome it?