Hi all, I need some suggestions from all you experienced ladies. Am on H4 in US. Don't have any job experience in India. So no exposure to job field. Want to start learning something new but confused where to start. My educational background is commerce but it was some 10 yrs back so even that too I have to start from begining. Am thinking of IT field....by learning some language with the help of my DH. Let me tell you short story from where all this began. Ok so DH wants me to get independent. After many lectures from him( he gets really serious about this) I want to take a step. But don't know where to start....ok after I learn a computer language my main problem is "JOB". I don't even have experience about cooperate world. How do I overcome all these thoughts. I have 3 yr old boy. I spend whole day taking care of him. DH travels travels by metro for job( 1 hr) so no help from him with kid or any other things....but he is really tired of me not being independent....he said he is ready to encourage me and teach me...my problem is different. I don't have confidence in myself. The moment I open my mouth to speak with strangers my voice automatically gets low and I struggle a lot.... Sorry for long post.plzzz ladies encourage me and give few suggestions... Thank you.