Ladies, I am looking for some advice here. I am planning to go to India for my cousins wedding but my husband is not very happy with this decision. He thinks if I go to India with my 2 kids, I will use marriage as a reason for not going to my in-laws place and then his parents will feel bad about it I have the same problem in every visit to India. My Inlaws wants me to spend the whole vacation at their place. If I go to my parents house, very next day they start saying that they are missing kids and my husband calls me asking me to come back. I am tired of this. They think only paternal grandparents are important for kids I make sure to spend equal time at both grand parents house in every visit but my husband doesn’t understand that. He wants me to spend more time at his place. I think his parents complain about me in my absence but they are very nice in front of me Do you ladies think it is a good idea to talk to my in-laws and tell them that if this continues, I will stop coming to India? please suggest!