My peaceful life disturbed!

I am just venting out my irritation. My brother-in-law and his wife with their 3 yr old kid is now with us for (their) vacation which I don't know is how long. My baby is just 17 months old and now feeling uncomfortable with them. Their kid is really bad in behaviour screaming and crying loudly all the time for everything. When denied of something she hits and pulls hairs of her parents or whoever she's angry with. My baby is calm by nature but she cant play since as soon as she picks up something the other kid comes running and snatches from her hands. This happens even when my baby eats biscuits. My bil shouts at his daughter and after 5 minutes things are back to square. Even my maid is irritated with them since my co-sis is a lazy fat goose who cooks but leaves everything as it is in the kitchen. My maid has to take care of my baby and protect her from the other kid since she pushes my child from behind when she walks. Moreover bil n his wife are very careless in keeping the doors open so we have to always watch our baby for her safety.I and my husband are working and we will be out of the house throughout the day. Thankfully my maid is good. but I dont know when she'll get fed up and ask me to send her back. My bil didn't do any work after his education though he's a graduate since he doesnt like working under anyone. For sometime he was doing some contract work then now dependent completely on my FIL's pension. MY co-sis is also not working but remains tired all the time. She sleeps more than anyone can. from 10pm to 8am then again from 2pm to 6pm approximately. Still she is tired. I come back from office and do cooking with my maids help but my co-sis sits comfortably with her kid and plays with her. I dont mind doing the cooking what irritates me is that she complains after this that she's tired playing with her daughter. I am a early bird who gets up at 5.30am and do some music practice and then get ready for office.leaves home at 9am Comes back by 7pm and then do cooking for 5 people still not as tired as she is! She's 2 yrs younger than me just hitting 30yrs and very fat. I took her to my neighbour's house since she is also from co-sis's place. She didn't touch the snacks they offered saying she doesnt have the mood to have. After 5 minutes she told she's leaving and left with her little monster when my husband and I were still sitting at neighbour's place. My neighbour and her husband asked whther she didn't like them! I wish they leave as early as possible so that atleast my baby gets a peaceful atmosphere at home. She cant even sleep due to the noise and disturbance from their baby.

 

The thing is that my co-sis doesnt like scolding her daughter even when she does some mischief saying she's just a small kid. Last time when i was at my in-laws place i saw her slapping my husband's grandma when she stopped her from doing some mischief. I told this to co-sis and co-sis says how the kid won't do like that the grandma always scolds her. I felt when the mother herself doesnt know what is right and wrong how come the kid will learn. Exactly this is what happened. Now the kid is out of control. My bil keeps on blaming co-sis for spoiling their daughter.The problem with me is that whenever my husband sees his family or relatives he behaves they are one and i feel an outsider.When we are alone he's at his best. He has told them to take rest in our bed room with ac so they sleep in our bed room in ac luxury whereas my child gets down from maid's hands to play freely. she cant sleep anyways because of the mess in the house. my maid goes to bathe or has food only when my baby is settled down since she is also scared of that other baby.

 

Hi blessed, that's the problem. Their return journey is a suspense for me as well as my co-sis. I once asked my husband and he got angry with me. I would have happily tolerated this inconvenience if it was short. My in-laws are very proud of their sons. They think that the brothers wil be happy together but not considering the unhappiness of their daughtr-in-laws. My husband is more close to his brother than anyone else so he doesnt like me commenting anything.

 

I feel like running away with my dd. Today I had an argument with my manager at office,drenched in rain and came home, my maid started complaining about co-sis. She told that she took some milk to give to my dd from what my bil had bought since there was no other milk in the fridge. My co-sis asked whether. She made herself tea with that milk. I don't know whether its. True but my co-sis body language and facial expression are not at all pleasant. My maid has started complaining too much about bil and wife. I cant say anything to the maid also since my baby is with. Her only when I go to work. My husband has told me not to tell anything to co-sis also since in their family daughtr-in-laws dont speak against anything. though I dont scold or beat their kid when she troubles my baby I give her cold stare due to which she is scared of me