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My Life Journey With My Special Kid!

Discussion in 'Schoolgoers & Teens' started by Swethasri, Feb 25, 2014.

  1. Mehana

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    We can give our input based on individual experience it’s up to parents to research we cannot judge anything. Please be kind to others when replying.
     
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    Hmmm..OK..thanks for ur reply..
     
  3. Mathima

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    He hate fruits too. That's the main concern, apart from some millet sweets he won't have any snacks at all.ground nut n dry fruits sometimes. Chapathi n puri I stopped n milk too a sip sometimes when I'm having. .
    Trying hard to make him eat fruits n raw veggies. Let's see..
     
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    This start of the school year is such a trigger for me. I see everyone around me going to meet the teachers, buying school supplies, worrying about tennis and soccer clubs, adding math classes in the mix and I just lose it. I wonder if this year will be year we finally converse with each other. I wonder if this year I will finally find the right fit school for him, where he can make a friend or two. I wonder if this school year I can do something typical with him instead of carting him from school to therapy and more therapy. When everyone else is learning to play a musical instrument, mine is working hard in therapy learning to communicate. Sometimes, this is very hard. Especially when he asks to go to the playground and I have to take him to therapy instead. Wonder why it has to be so hard for him.
     
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    I am in the same boat.
    Hugs @Laks09
     
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    U telecasted my feelings. When it's going to be normal for us. Looking for a relief medically, physically ,spiritually in whatever ways came across.
    Even when he doing a new thing like any normal kid b4 getting happy, brain wants to confirm whether this is coz of any sensory issue r this one DAT one.
    Wtever other kids doing everything vanished juz coz they talked, but ours minor one becoming a mountain like thing.
    But Finally I'm not going to lose myself n not my kid to suffer. Made him to this much in these years will make him better in future too..
    So don't worry@laks09 v will make them lead a happy independent life.. Kudos to ur kid.
     
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    Hang in there girls, when i see you and your lo's, what i went through is a breeze,though it has been a uphill task and still is..what with not much help or support available at that point .. he is coming home today,because he is upset and frustrated and have a long day to listen, help..it is a ongoing process as such..

    One day at a time..sometimes it is hr by hr..it is ok, after all he has taught me patience ..

    Hugs, and one day it will happen..hope keeps us afloat..
     
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    @Shanvy, @Sunshine04 and @Mathima - Thanks ladies. I value your support.

    Sunshine - Just what I needed. How did you know? I’m saving the piece!!!
     
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