Hi all, In the opening post, I had mentioned about the DH's friend, he called on the weekend asked if he could stay for a night as he is visiting someone near my place. My DH simply refused said we are have some work. The friend didn't tell us anything else. Suddenly calling on Friday saying if he could come along with another friend (my DH school friend) and his mom dad coming to our place, by having speaker on the car while calling. DH asked them to come for lunch. They all came around 6 people. Suddenly the friend told my DH didn't pick or drop to airport. I said the requests are coming almost every other week. He is not a driver, he can't get off/ his boss isn't my bro. In a polite and comical way. Now DH says, the friend deliberately telling other school/ college friends that we are living in this city and we are good hosts. After we came to know another friend xxx is planning for a trip next month with his family. I totally got pissed off and told DH , no. If someone comes, it will be very bad. No more self inviting guests I'm tired of them. My DH called the visiting friend xxx, said no over night stay, but welcome for dinner or lunch. Now the Friend xxx, told DH since they are coming with a baby 13 month old they need kitchen access. Hotel stay won't be comfortable. Etc etc. Some how he convinced my DH host them for 3 days. I'm totally against it. I said ask him to book Airbnb.DH said can't say this, at that time it didn't strike him. From Diwali I have been attending potlucks, cooking for 15-20 persons on weekends. I'm totally exhausted, I can't cater 3 more people for 3 days.also he is likely to extend his stay... I really can't sulk, I don't know how to do it. DH n I had a big fight now. He is says, he is understanding my situation..yet can't say NO. I'm thinking to move from 2bhk to 1bhk because of these idiots, who think they have free food n accommodation for sightseeing n airport services. 1) DH stopped pick up drop to airport 2) we firmly said no overnight stay for friend's friends. Now new issue cropped up school friends are coming, what to do on this side, when we people invite themselves? We said No yet they are so manipulatative to convince DH.