My Friend Was Blackmailed, I Need Help.

Shantanu007 · Sep 28, 2018

Brevity said: ↑

I think, the first step would be to consult a trusted lawyer. Collect and save as much proof of the abuse. Contact women's cell, other NGOs and keep the proof. Contact police with the lawyer on your side. It would be better to go through an all women's police station or file the petition with an honest higher up official. If the person is influential, the girl can also go to press with some anonymity. With some publicity and proof on your side, fudging the case by the influential person would be harder.

I am not sure if we can file a criminal case directly with the court without going to police. A good lawyer could guide you through it.
Hope your friend comes out of this hell soon and hope you garner up the strength for both of you.
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If the truth is on our side then my uncle who is a good lawyer will definitely help her.
I will giver her link to this forum and tell her that she can also talk to you people for moral support.

I hope she gets strength and courage to fight against all evil.

Sunshine04 · Oct 5, 2018

Shantanu007 said: ↑

I have talked to them and they said we can make a case against but she needs to speak for that. I cannot force lawyers upon her.

Her biggest problem is she does not speak clearly, She just tell enough to disturb me and then I have to find out what is going on?? In Jan if she would have said clearly what is wrong then I would have helped her directly.

Now also, When I said that "I know he blackmailed you and took money from you, I will help you to fight back". She said she we call later to tell all the details, she did call but i was not able to pickup call at that time, then she started ignoring my calls. I called her for 15-20 days and messaged her.

I said to her "this is not a joke, this is about your life. He will ruin your life if you won't fight back". She is so annoying like this.

I dont know if I have some problem talking to her, or if she wants to talk to someone else.

There must be some people who can talk and counsel people in need. Like the suicide hotline. Someone who she can trust and talk properly.

I 100% know that something bad happened to her and a part of her wants to fight back. But a part of her is also scared and afraid.
I dont know what to do now.
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She is lucky to have a friend like you

Shantanu007 · Oct 5, 2018

Sunshine04 said: ↑

She is lucky to have a friend like you
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I don't think she considers me as a friend anymore. She has blocked me everywhere because I contacted her family.

She takes out all her frustration on me. I understand that.

I have not contacted her or send her the link to this because she would instantly delete anything from me and would not read this thread properly.

That's why I am even willing to pay a therapist to talk to her about this matter. She needs to talk to someone.