I have a friend who always had negative interactions with people. Few good interactions here and there, but mostly bad. Nearly 10 years later she suffers from past trauma. Some of this trauma occurred at her place of worship. She believes in God, but every time she observes her religion, she gets bad memories. My friend started to read her religion's holy book and it makes her feel like she is worshipping the devil. People may create a religion, but it is not the religion that hurt her. And there is a good chance that the person who hurt her was only pretending to be her same religion, but is a different religion. My friend is frazzled and hurt. How do I help her?