Hi All .. I am a new memeber to this site and today I have come with a problem and need some guidance on what to do further in my friend's life. The situation that my friend is facing is very confusing.When she came to me for advice I could not give any and am asking the senior persons who r in our parents age could throw their thoughts on. My friend is in love with a guy and accepted his love after 3 years after completely knowing about him.Both my friend and the guy are from very decent families from South Tamilnadu where still love marriages are not accepted.Both of them are so affectionate on their parents that they could not decide their life on their own. Even though they are from same religion they both are from different caste which is the main barrier for their joining in life.The guy's father even after knowing his son's love for this girl has not accepted their love till this moment(they are waiting for almost an year for his approval).My friend who is already 27 is being forced to decide on something fast as her parents are not able to reply anybody when some matches come and also couldnot say any answer to the relatives and friends. She is really suffering a lot without knowing what to do further.The guy is ready to marry her anytime but my friend was brought up in a very deciplined way that she refuses for it and expects his parents and her parents approval. Now her question is what should she do now.Should she wait for some more time or years for this nice guy who is good , gentle and very caring on her or should she sacrifice him for both the parents.But by leaving him behind she says she will not be happy coz he will not be happy without her. Many may say if it is a true love let them wait but both of them have equal amount of love on their parents that they donot want to make them feel bitter by marrying without their approval.