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My father always makes me feelguilty bec i dont staywt my inlaws

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by kirann, Jul 16, 2013.

  1. Jul 16, 2013 #1
    kirann

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    We don't have any privacy when we stay wt thm also my mother in law creates allsort of problems for me. My father always insists me tostay wt thm and blames me
     
    kirann, Jul 16, 2013
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  2. Jul 16, 2013 #2
    Twinkel

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    Its for you and your DH to decide where u r comfortable. Just turn deaf to what others have to say about this:coffee
     
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  3. Jul 18, 2013 #3
    Mahajanpragati

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    is your father worried that Inlaws may not leave you property or jewellary or is his concern social,that is he is worried what people will say..............either way its you & your hubby's decision & u should not worry about it.
     
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    yellowmango

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    Do you have a brother? Maybe he worried that his DIL will use you as an excuse to have a separate home. Really sad when parents are more worried about stuff than their children's happiness.
     
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    ppriya182010

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    Your family, your decision. How is this different than in-laws interference! Same treatment:IGNORE!
     
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    breeze01

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    in the beginning I guess you start to feel guilty but as the time goes you get to use to ignore it. don't worry.

    its you and your husband who are making decisions regarding your comfort, zone. we cant change the way parents think.
     
    breeze01, Jul 24, 2013
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    123thirumala

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    just do whatever u want and ignore others
     
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