I love my parents and my husband they are good. I have two brothers one is elder and one is younger and elder brother stays here in US and due to some reasons he could not able to make his presence in my marriage and my elder brother marriage is next year. I wanted to attend his marriage and my husband is not ready to send me to the marriage. recently we went to India for his brothers marriage and at that time I had so many visa problems… still we went there and did his brother marriage and I haven’t said anything for that but now he is ordering me not to attend my brothers marriage. …There are no visa problems in attending marriage right now ….. there is plenty of time where I can plan for the marriage…. Still he says so many thing about my brother and my family …and even he doesn’t want to spend a penny on me for this trip. …. I don’t know how to handle this situation and need some suggestions so that I can not hurt his feelings and wanted to attend the marriage.