Must read- esp for my friend inlovewithmylife, & all the mothers & expectant mothers!

Yesterday i read a post by my friend on IL about the problems she's facing during her pregnancy. She is going through a tough time during this phase of life. When i was thinking about that,i thought of writing something which i felt for her and for every mother.
Please read..


I am at my in-laws place, that is hyderabad. I've got married in a nice joint family with so many flavours in it. My maternal place is jaipur & of course very far away from here.
In my daily routine, i miss my mom a hundred times a day. This is because, she was the only one without whom i could'nt do a single thing. And now when i am married, i just think, what hardships a mother goes for the sake of her family. As i think this, i wish to write down my feelings in words . But its really difficult to shape out my feelings into a perfect looking article, but i will try my level best & lets see how it comes out.

A mother, right from the birth of her child, comes into existence, she never has existed before. At this point of life the journey of a mother begins. She loses her sleep, but never frowns because the joy of being a mother overlaps all the stress in her. It is not at all EASY to carry a baby in ourselves for continuous 9 months , but a mother does so, with a dream of being a mother inside her.

Being pregnant , in my opinion, is the toughest thing in this whole world. A pregnant woman cant sleep properly, feels nauseated every now & then, cramping in all her body, still she smiles for she's happy being pregnant.
To support my views , i would like to quote a few lines with reference to ISLAM for a pregnant woman:

- A woman who's pregnant, gets the sawaab(good deeds) equivalent to fasting the whole day & worshiping the whole night.
( pure din ke roze ka sawaab aur puri raat ibaadat karne ka sawaab)

- Every pain that a pregnant woman feels during her pregnancy or because of that is of great worth. She's considered to be the one in JIHAAD & if she dies because of her pregnancy, she is considered a SHAHEED (martyr).

-every 2 rakaats , that a pregnant woman recites is equivalent or better that 1000 rakaats recited by any normal woman.

- when its the labor time, all the angels of the skies, pray for the mother & her child to come out succesfully.

These quotes made me feel proud that i am going for a pregnancy, not only me but any pregnant woman would feel the same. Not only during pregnancy but in islam, a woman is considered so great, especially the MOTHER!
It is believed that he who serves his mother , serves the whole world.
A mother is great as she does a million things for us which cant be explained in words. What i mentioned above, is just a small fraction of the mother's hardships, which is so big & endless!

I would conclude it all by a simple islamic thought:
'' he who has his mother with him..
.. Has the JANNAH in his home''

 

Re: Must read- esp for my friend inlovewithmylife, & all the mothers & expectant moth

Hey sujisaran!! I am glad for your first FB for my post. Really, no matter how many problems a pregnant woman suffers , still the pain or discomfort is totally of great worth.
Thnx for posting ur comment!!!!

 

Re: Must read- esp for my friend inlovewithmylife, & all the mothers & expectant moth

I hope all pregnant women might have the same feeling!!!

 

Re: Must read- esp for my friend inlovewithmylife, & all the mothers & expectant moth

Oh thnx rosy & viji!!
But hardluck this time. Not pregnant, & its clear now. Thats why i thot of writing this post bcz i am eager to get pregnant & feel that those who become mothers are really lucky..!!
Thnx for wishes ..

 

Re: Must read- esp for my friend inlovewithmylife, & all the mothers & expectant moth

Thnx rosy .. Thnx a lot for your wishes.. I really hope so!!!
Inshallah!!