Hi ! I have been married for about 8 years. My In-laws are staying at our bussiness property. My husband goes there to take care of bussiness everyday for about 8 hours or more while I am gone to work. He is the only son. He is always concerned about pleasing his mom since he feels that his father has temper issues and his mom did not have a good life all these years. From day one, she has been trying to control our lives and also tried to show my husband my flaws. She also convinced my husband not to have kids till we have good relation. Finally since I just turned 30 and all her sisters got grandkids, she started pushing us to have kids. I am 7 months pregnant currently. She wants me to make a room for her and she just wants the one across from our baby's room. I want to give her one on the ground floor instead of where our bedroom and kids rooms are. My husband always sees her side and we have issues. I have heard a long conversation they had while his cell phone was turned on by mistake where she was coaching him to scare me with divorce and how I am sometimes trying to be so nice after fights could be because I am crazy etc. This has left me very hurt since my husband was sharing his ideas about me with her openly. So now whenever, I know something came from her and that's why my husband wants me to do it, he calls me paraniod. Now, my husband just constantly critizises me and has nothing good to say about me. She has ruined our relationship. I have cried all these 7 months of my pregnancy for one issue or other and feel that she is trying to give me more hard time since she found out that I am pregnant. I recently decided to take the high road in the best interest of my baby. I am not complaining about my mother-in-law to my husband or telling him that she has brainwashed him and that is why he is doing that. I am also tolerating/ignoring things that I have no say or control over and just letting it go. She wants me to please her and spend time with her during weekends and so does my husband. I am mad that my husband does not want to go with me anywhere during weekends and does not care about making me happy while I am pregnant at all ! However, it is very difficult. She wants me to give her so much importance and so does her son and meanwhile neither of them want to respect me or do or say anything good about me. I am scared about her moving in with me after the baby and what my life will be specially since my husband is always standing up for her rights and is telling from now how the baby is going to be her grandson and how grandsons are more dearer than sons. He thinks that I will not let her mom touch my baby etc and that is not right. Please advice me on a good solid strategy to tackfully deal with this and future issues.