Most romantic/painful moment for me!

Hi all,

Let me share my experience here for the first time...

My guy proposed me four years back...no poetic/flowery words...all he said was 'You are the stupid girl I fell in love with' Oh my God, I was so proud of being a Stupid girl :biglaugh It was not the romantic moment for me.

Later we got placed in different companies and settled in jobs. When he was earning, he did everything for me just taking me as his wife. I felt very comfortable and secured when I was with him. I didn't know those moments were special. All I had in my mind was what others would think. For instance, if he gets me a saree, he will design the blouse for it. In the tailor shop, he will be serious into his job of designing the blouse. Everyone will stare at me in confusion, whether we got married or not. But he doesn't even care for anyone. It was not the romantic moment for me.

He is a person who loves to manage things. He leads....has great managerial qualities in him. When I told him 'Do MBA', he was much interested in it and started the preparation towards it. He was aiming for colleges in US but at the same time said he cannot leave me here in India. The other option was why don't you come with me? I said Yes. I will do anything for him. So started preparing...but it was all Greek and Latin for me. I did for him to be successful. He deserves it!

Everyone discouraged us by saying you cannot get admission in the same college...try some other country, not US. But we got admission in the same college. All set....we both were very happy! Even that was not the romantic moment for me.

My visa got rejected twice,lost my job and was hopeless. He then went for his visa interview. I was sitting outside the consulate waiting for him. I was in pain...I didn't know how my life would be without him. Still I wanted him to pursue his dreams. I know how much a guy would love to have a great professional life. He came back in 30 minutes. I was shocked....couldn't even ask him what happened? He was smiling at me....and said "I got visa. Still I couldn't believe that I am going to US for doing MBA which was my dream for a long time.You truly added meaning to my life" When we came back home, he gave me a kiss [last kiss] with so much pain in heart. Most romantic/painful moment in my life!

We are apart now....in two different sides of the world. Is this a punishment to me for not realizing all the beautiful moments he gave me before?! I don't know what it is...am still waiting for the next kiss he would give me on the day of marriage! :kiss

Our parents are Okay with our love and we will get married after his studies which is another two years. Love is too hard for everyone in some way....for me it is in a different way!

 

Thanks Priya and Jaya.... :cheers

 

Thanks all!

Shreya, that is a wonderful idea. :idea

TL, the experience is indeed very rich!