Sorry for the long post .....A little background here.... I had a baby boy in November last year and was diagnosed with diabetes very early in pregnancy (around 3-4weeks) it was a very stressful journey and by God's grace my son is healthy ... My in laws ( little early amonth before delivery)and my mom both came for delivery , ILs came durin my 9th month and created too much stress , instead of resting I was doing sasumma kind seva my giving her juices b preparing dishes of variety et c , when my mom came she started taunting her etc etc . After delivery also it continued finally 4 days after my delivery I snapped and answered back fought wd them on their behavior. .from then on they star Ted distancing them selves from us ...my bil marriage is in November this year. .. Due to my health I am going to India in few weeks ... My problem here is they never once asked me when I am coming to stay wd then , they keep saying things which make me little uncomfortable and feel that me and my son are not welcome there ...for example...it's very hot here baby will not be comfortable, too many ppl will visit you baby will be disturbed. ..many things as such ( am I over think ing) They never once call or talk to me and ask to see their grandson but if someone visits them they call multiple times and over act saying " my kanna my cuuty" etc etc... Now , I am visiting India for around 6 months , I am scared that my mil will emotional ly black mail my hubby and take money from him for marriage (second son very smart won't even give single penny and he is very well earning) .. I have no problem with giving money but right now we r not financial ly well settled , with single income and a baby we ourselves are struggling , they came they saw our conditions but still they dun understand. ..and its not like they r poor they have smartly invested during their greener years and mil herself told they have so many savings but still they want struggling son to give them money.... All this is giving my husband anxiety and stress and making me even more vulnerable. .and this stage all this is making me more tired and more stressful. ..