yes...she has always done that since marriage and even after doing everything for this house, am treated like an outsider. Anything for that matter...she would give everyone but not me. She has been claiming that she will give all her jewels to my daughter and that too in a sarcastic way so many times. This is the first thing she told me when she came to the hospital after my daughter was born many years ago. Am happy that my daughter will have it but her intention is very well known. If she had a daughter she would have given it to her also, apart from my daughter. Its not that I want anything of hers, its the feeling that how much ever you do to them and their house, you won't be considered as part of the family. Sometimes I feel its good that she doesnt give me so that I won't owe her anything in future. If I take hers, then I'll be in her Runa ( debt) so its good that I don't. But sometimes I feel that I am always an outsider no matter how much I do.