MIL , SIL and extended family woes - please help

Dear spaceaura1


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Dear spaceaura1

Some families will have expectations from son, some dont..

In your case, they are expecting your dh to do his sister marriage
and pay emi for house/flat they brought..

Marriage i am not sure if you can help, but property for which he is
paying emi, ensure he gets share in that property..

Plan for investments that wise hes forced to pay for your emi..
Plan for kid, that wise he will learn he needs to save and spend for kid..
And ensure your salary is completely saved, make him a practise that
he needs to take care of your expense too and its his duty....


And regarding your in-laws, luckily you are staying in different places
so just relax and find ways to bond with your dh and explain him
about saving money for your future, also ensure you both spend
quality time together to improve love/bond between you people


Take vacation, play games, take a walk in evenings/weekends at-least..

All the best dear, time changes, dont worry, first few years of marraige
many women go through this kinda issues, i am sure as time pass by
and you have kid, he will start bonding to you and kid, and save money
for your future.. Be positive...