Hi All, I'm married for a year and staying with my in-laws.My MIL is very dominating.She decides everything at home.I never felt like a member of that family. I can't cook a single dish according to my choice.I can't wear clothes of my choice.Eventhough I earn she keeps an account of everything.Even if I shop I have to list everything in front of her. I can't go anywhere with my husband.She will also accompany.My husband is super attached with his Mom so he won't tell anything against her.On top of it I am blessed with an interfering SIL too..My MIL always compare me with my SIL and always praises her.My SIL is married still spend most of the time at our place.I am expected to do all the household chores from cleaning to doing dishes.I can't even keep a maid because MIL thinks it's an extra expense.Mother daughter duo makes my life hell.. Please suggest me how to stay calm.. I am dying day by day..