Hello, Can someone chime in and provide their opinions/thoughts please.Unable to take a decision. I lost my husband in US. It has been 4 yrs. now and I stay alone in Delaware. I have no kids .Though I have many friends in Delaware, I cannot go to anyone's house when I am not well because I cannot give them trouble and you cannot walk to anyone's house. My friends are helpful but I should not cross a line and respect the relation and their privacy. My sister stays in New Jersey with her family (Sister, husband and kids). I have an option to move to New Jersey and stay somewhat close to her. I do not want to stay with them but may be take an apartment two or 3 blocks away from where they stay so that I have someone who I can reach out to when really in need and maintain a healthy boundary. BY staying in the same house, there may be some situations that arise which will hamper the relation with my sister so I want to stay somewhere close to their house but not really near. Please let me know what are the upsides and downsides you foresee if I move to where my sister stays? Relation with my sister has been good till now. We talk 2 to 3 times a week but never stayed close or near by so do not know how the relationship would turn in future. Any similar personal experiences? Pls. share which could help me in making up my mind.