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leftover with two kids. help needed.

Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by kksheela, Oct 13, 2014.

  1. kksheela

    kksheela Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi

    I was cheated by a man and lost all my jewels, savings and life. I tried to live with him as because I don't want my kids to loose their dad. I don't have a dad and I know the feelings. But now for the past two days am staying in the streets. I have a 5 year old hotly and 1 year old girl. Am M.Sc S/w engg graduate, had 5 yrs of exp. Am not bold and not good at English. My kid is studying. Having 1 year baby, I don't know how to go for a job. I need a home and job but no money. Only 8gm stud is there.
    Could you plz tell me is there any single bed room for rent below 5000. Planning to start a small day care. Plz give some advice. Am depressed and confused.
     
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  2. Metamorphic

    Metamorphic Gold IL'ite

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    You need time to settle down mentally and emotionally. Starting a day care is not a good idea now, in this stage. Apart from the motive of earning money you also need some other essential elements in you like passion, patience, liveliness, presence of mind, calmness etc., for running a day care. I dont think you are into all these currently given the conditions you are in. And remember, people joining their kids in day care for various reasons, wishes it to be another home for their kids.

    So better start with home tuition, teaching in schools etc., and simultaneously trying your luck in software field too wherein you have good experience.

    Strength to you!
     
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    omnam Platinum IL'ite

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    What do u mean by living in street...how can u write here then.

    Why don't u stay at ur relatives place for few days! Don't u have siblings or at least close friends. This s very tough situation. Go to police and complain about him. How can u give away ur money and jewels. Go and scream ur throat out in his house.
    There is nothing called bold...ur agony s enough to make things make straight. U want ur two kiddos to have better life...please fight for them. Get ur things back.... Put him behind bars. Get maintenance and alimony from him. Indian judicial system s not that bad
     
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