Le Charming Connections reignited!

Sali aadhi gharwali is such a taken for granted concept!!

 

Interesting topic....beautifully written.

Apart from the workplace and social flirting... today, the digital world and the internet is the latest place for flirting. Here, no body language, no gestures required, only words are needed and what is more, flirting is done without eye-contact and therefore all the more easier, far more quicker, racier and bolder with equally devastating consequences as flirting in a workplace or a social circle. It is a fact that people are far more willing to disclose personal secrets / fantasies and are more bold from behind the computer screen on the net...therefore the process of flirting and crossing the line may escalate more quickly into an EMA. Internet gives a false sense of security that nothing will come out of just chatting and most ppl tell themselves that they are never going to meet in person anyway...so it wouldnt technically be "cheating".

Married ppl...if at all they must flirt...let them flirt with their spouses....there is no better way to keep the romance in the marriage alive

 

I hear you Tanoshi.... I know of a couple here where the husband is a compulsive flirt...and that too not a charming one but an obnoxious flirt. Many women have told the wife about him, but she is in absolute denial and accuses the other women of casting their eyes on her husband. It had become so bad that they dont get invited anywhere anymore...

 

I can understand her situation there. Even though they both know their problems, they'd decide to deal with them behind closed doors and to others, its always as if nothing's wrong. I pity the girl having to go through all that and she too is in denial. What can we do as outsiders about it? Nothing!!

And very rightly said about Internet flirting Sumitha. That is so fitting with the current days.

 

Very well said, Sumitha!

For all you know , Even if the wife questions the hubby about this, he must be accusing her of "non-trusting","cheap","suspective" wife and giving her all fundaas of how great he is and how supportive she should be and how much he loves her.I pity those wives who do not use their brain and instincts in those cases.They get carried away by their hubby's charming words.