Dear all, i want to share my thoughts,i know this'll hurt others,pls don't mind. reg. child care. i have so many questions in my mind. 1. why do parents leave their kids to others to take care????? 2.don't they think that their parents r getting old??? how they'll take care of such a small kids,they have energy to run behind the kids?? only they can play with kids. they can maxi tc for 1 week or so. how their health will be?? 3. is it cloak room for just 10 months?? 4. maid,how u can expect 3rd person to be honest to ur kid??? my friend is working in bangalore,her kid is with her parents in chennai,she'll visit her kid once in a month,if she is busy with works she can't come to chennai. then how they'll expect affection from the kids in future,she is just a visitor thatz all, for whom she is working for??? whatz the use,only money she'll get,her hubby is in well position,then y she should go for a work,if any financial probs means ,then she have to go,but...her kid willcall her grandparents as mom & dad, then kid will call her parents as uncle, aunty. my relative is a doctor,she leaves her kid in chengalpattu,she is in chennai,very rarely she'll go & visit her kid,kid will not sleep with his mom,becoz she is a visitor,he'll cry until his grand ma or grandpa have to company him or else he'll not sleep,eat nothing,then how she can tell that he is her son???also her mother is a patient,she can't bend becoz of spinal cord probs:icon_frown: do grandparents have any rights with the kids,no..only their duty is to take care of the kids for certain age,thatz all. talking abt maid,how she'll take care of 3rd person kids??? this is not her kid,her kid is suffering in small hut,but this kid is enjoying with lots of toys,food whatever...parents can give more money for kids to tc ,but can a maid be affectionate with that kid??? she'll beat the kid,anything she can do,how v'll get to know?? when i was in kolkatta,my house owner have 1 servant maid,she'll come early morning do all the works till evening,only a small boy in that house,she'll sit in the AC room relax herself,cook whatever she wants,daily she'll lock the boy inside of the house & she'll stand outside of the house,becoz the boy won't eat properly or he needs something for that she'll punish him like that,the boy will get afraid & scream,she'll laugh & go inside,how the boys parents will get to know abt this??? he is very small just 2 yrs old. i can't tell this to owner,she'll tell mind ur business,so for my satisfaction i'll also go outside of the house & stand,after seeing me,then imml'y the maid will go inside. y should we left our kids to other's hand & worry??? if u give only importance to money then y u need kids??? if u r not able to show ur affections,care to ur kids,then what is the use of saving money???whom u r working for??:idontgetit: iam sorry if i hurt anyone. iwant ur opinion abt this... also v'll discuss abt some topics like this daily.