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It Is Not Too Difficult To Lead An Extraordinary Life

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by cheer, Jun 9, 2007.

  1. cheer

    cheer Silver IL'ite

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    You can lead either of two kinds of lives: An ordinary life or an extraordinary life. When you lead an ordinary life, you move along with the current of your desires, preoccupied in fulfilling your own goals, aims and agendas. Ordinary beings are only conscious of their own life.

    Extraordinary beings are conscious of their life and are also constantly aware of Divinity. They are confident that God's Grace will resolve all their problems. They know that whatever life brings is ultimately for the best.

    Those who lead an extraordinary life enjoy every minute of it. To them, every moment is precious. Even ordinary circumstances elicit a different response from them. If you believe that you are extraordinary, then you start looking at the world differently. When you think that you are born special, you will lead a special life. Constant hope makes our life extraordinary. Without this, life is drab and ordinary.

    If we look at life as a problem, it becomes ordinary but if we look at it as an opportunity, it becomes extraordinary. This bowl beside me is full of fragrant roses. If i pick up a single rose and look at it, it is really beautiful.

    There is no need for any comparison. Like all the other roses here, it is unique. If we have the habit of comparing ourselves with others, our self-confidence sometimes soars and sometimes crashes. A truly extraordinary life is never based on comparison. It is the result of constant blossoming within.

    Human life is a rare privilege. Why waste a single minute of this precious gift or lose a single opportunity to make it extraordinary?

    If we cultivate the art of savouring every moment of life even when it brings unexpected challenges to us, our life becomes extraordinary. When there is interest, we feel exuberant and joyful. When there is no interest, life is mechanical and ordinary.

    If we are travelling and our vehicle breaks down in the country-side, do we take the opportunity to revel in the natural beauty around us? Or do we fret, fume and grumble? When we perceive the best in everything, life becomes extraordinary and memorable.
    When we live life like this, a special feeling arises in us. Our life is full of zest and joy. We can never completely control what happens in the external world around us, but our internal world is in our hands. We can allow it to be ugly or choose to make it beautiful.

    When we enjoy every moment and every circumstance that comes our way, one negative element that flavours each day of our present existence disappears. This element is TENSION. Stress, tension, boredom, depression, impatience and frustration become things of the past. These emotions which were slowly draining away the energy of the Soul disappear. When we enjoy every moment of life, it is always full of wonder and never grows stale.

    Each and every situation that comes our way is not custom-made to fit our present frame of mind. If every circumstance were to our liking, internal growth and transformation would never take place; our life would become stagnant and sub-human. So it is our own perception that decides whether our life remains ordinary or becomes extraordinary. Life will always pose challenges; it is up to us to make it joyous.

    Flow like a river, revelling in every moment of life.

    Discourse: Shri Nimishananda
     
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  2. chitrajan

    chitrajan Bronze IL'ite

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    Dear Cheer,

    You made me think with this one too.

    We have some preset values of what is correct and not correct and console ourselves that we will not be able to reach the mark and therefore settle for an average attitude in life. We dont even try to rise above the level because we have a prejudiced view of ourselves that we cannot do it. Most of the times it is because we do not want to step out of our comfort zone.

    Once we try a different attitude towards a job or person, we find out that it was not difficult at all and will be surprised to realise that the obstruction was not a real one but the one planted by our thoughts.
     
  3. cheer

    cheer Silver IL'ite

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    Dear chitra i do agree with U. It's all upto us how we react, there is always 2 aspects of life. All depends how we take it. Good to know u liked it.
     
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    madhu11 Bronze IL'ite

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    Dear Cheer,

    This is very true.
    When you read some of these things its very inspiring. You actually feel like taking things in your own hands and not reacting to what goes on around you.
    Thanks for posting.:)

    madhu
     
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    Sriniketan IL Hall of Fame

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    Very good article which will make us 'extraordinary human beings'. Keep posting such articles.

    Sriniketan
     
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    cheer Silver IL'ite

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    Thanx Sri:wave

     
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    mythili Senior IL'ite

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    Thank you for the wonderful article! Please keep posting :2thumbsup:
     
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    meenu61 New IL'ite

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    very good article,pls keep on posting more.Thanks
     
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    cheer Silver IL'ite

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    roopadadia Silver IL'ite

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    Hi Cheer,

    A very optimistic view to life.

    My husband always says whatever happens happens for good. So enjoy the moment and take the situation in your stride don't let any situation mount on you.

    Roopa.
     

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