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Is there any way to reduce SIL's visits?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Iamagoodgirl, Dec 8, 2014.

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  1. Jan 13, 2015 #461
    Akanksha1982

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    Bummer. Help your SIL find a home based day care for her DD. Other alternative is to restrict her working hours to match school timings. Is work from home an option for her?

    Work with your DH to have your PILs join SIL for the betterment of SIL and her DD. Tell him that PIL should not worry about society etc to take care of their daughter when she badly needs them. Tell him that you are really worried about SIL's daughter and you will manage the house without the extreme help of your PILs.
     
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  2. Jan 13, 2015 #462
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    Please continue. This thread is now a comprehensive guide and case-study for DIL's on SIL's

    :welcome I see a movement here, beyond OP's personal woes. 500 is within reach too :coffee
     
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    This thread is giving competition to the "It happens only in in laws place" thread....:)
     
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  4. Jan 13, 2015 #464
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    thinkingsmiley:spin47 pages of creative ideas on how to reduce SIL's visits? :drowningfaintingsmiley

    disclaimer: i didnt read any post, except Op's post.
     
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    :notthatway: this is like a potluck of ideas so each person should contribute an idea :coffee
     
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    Your response above shows that. This thread is full of creative ideas, fun facts and a healthy discussion about why and why not stop in laws' visit/how to treat parents/inlaws equally and who is responsible for aged parents and why apart from OP's issues, updates and suggestions.
     
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    isnt it so :hide:. i am sorry as i didnt read, just assumed that so many posts from so many brains would definetly be creative.
     
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    All your color play gave me a headache hubbyslife!

    No that is not accusation., only Nb25's opinion of what you said :)

    Sorry folks, couldn't resist that. Just helping @chachi420 achieve 500 soon :p
     
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    OP should start a new thread.

    Re: Is there any way to reduce SIL's visits?Part 2.
    Warning: all thread hijackers stay away.
     
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    I have said every thing in the post itself. Further explanations are unnecessary. Still.

    I have explained myself at length in all my posts, and highlighted those things which I found rude in yours. If I wanted to make fun of you, I would not make the effort to explain myself. If you still think I am making fun of you, I can't help it. You should make some allowances for differences of opinion.

    I do find these words "What you r calling crap" unacceptable. No one said it, and it was unwarranted. As for "I think you have not properly ready my post on Polygamy and divorce." - Are you an expert on polygamy and divorce? Are you saying others not as intelligent as you? It is condescending.

    It is ok if you have run out of ideas on the topics that were being discussed. No need to keep debating like this.

    Anyway, if you still feel it is ok to write like this, I have nothing to say.
     
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