Is premarital sex wrong?

@anika987
I think u misunderstood what I was saying, I said for premarital sex (not for casual sex) , that also when they are in deep love .
I mean to say, Baggage of previous relationships if they still carrying, then one shouldn't be going for sex with new partner.

Also huge financial issues out of irresponsibility (like going to casinos, or partying too often by overspending) of one person will give negative effect on a relationship, college fee related loans are different.

My POV is for how I want my kid to be in future. But as said somebody we will not be able to control, but we can tell what is good to them

 

I don't know if i should really worry for premarital sex....you never in future if boy will really like girl or boy-boy & girl- girl :bang

 

Dear Anika

Good topic to discuss.

Casual sex, premarital sex and extra marital affairs are 3 different topics altogether. Do not relate and complicate life with them.

Pre marital sex is fine as long as the partners' reach adulthood, committed in their relationship, get the confidence for life, knowledge about sex and sexual health and basic capacity to face the problems (both physical, emotional and financial) independently without depending on their parents.
As long as they don't just enjoy sex, but do the act with a knowledge about the act, it is perfectly fine with me.

Casual sex is different. The commitment is what missing here. Therefore, it makes us no different from the street animals. We humans are emotional beings. We enjoy sex not just as part of bodily needs, but also as emotional need. So, when there is no commitment, but just sex with strangers then it degrade our life standards. JMO

Extra marital affair is something cheating. You are committed with one person and having an affair with another person behind your spouse's back. That is cheating, so it is wrong anyway.