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Is marriage means gal's rebirth?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by WhrHeartGoes, Jul 11, 2010.

  1. WhrHeartGoes

    WhrHeartGoes New IL'ite

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    Hi friends...

    As its being often said by elders that a marriage is like a gal's rebirth.. I am just curious to know how many of you believes in it...
    i agree it changes the life completely but i just want to know how much it has changed the real you..

    Please pour your thoughts on it...
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  2. RadiantCat

    RadiantCat Gold IL'ite

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    Please read the associated thread Indian Family System.
     
  3. ShilpaMa

    ShilpaMa IL Hall of Fame

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    Well if you're a cow types.. who knows to simply wag the tail and let people milk her, then yes a rebirth for you & you wont even realise it..

    However if you're a HOLY cow with sharp horns and one person milking and ready to kick off the butt of all others who try to milk you then its a rebirth for others arnd :crazy:crazy:crazy..........
     
  4. gkshyam

    gkshyam Silver IL'ite

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    Well, purely by general knowledge, in most of the Indian marriage systems that I have observed, the father of the bride, gives her away to his son-in-law.... literally like a transfer of ownership (though that sounds very crude, to say the least...)

    You also have the Gothra system, where the girl originally belongs to her father's Gothra after birth, but embraces her husband's Gothra after marriage.

    And till marriage, she is considered a girl, but once marriage takes place, she has to handle umpteen responsibilities on her own, embraces newer relationships, runs a family, becomes mature..... becomes a WOMAN, from a girl.

    So, in a way, all that possibly that accounts for "re-birth"... :)
     
  5. gkshyam

    gkshyam Silver IL'ite

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    But more than marriage, I have actually heard that becoming a mother, is like a re-birth for the woman... have the others too heard the same??
     
  6. ShilpaMa

    ShilpaMa IL Hall of Fame

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    Yes surely becoming a mother is another re-birth.
    Whatever hornless cow couldn't be made out of post marriage, its given a try now :rotfl:rotfl:rotfl... since you're emotionally and physically weaker at this stage.

    You're already too heavy to raise your legs to kick ppl trying to milk u :crazy..
     
  7. gkshyam

    gkshyam Silver IL'ite

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    Hahaha.... :lol: Well said..... that's quite true..! :p
     
  8. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    rebirth? sounds so cliched.
     
  9. rajalakshmigopal

    rajalakshmigopal Gold IL'ite

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    Not rebirth.absolute death.:biglaugh
     
  10. aruna_077

    aruna_077 Senior IL'ite

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    I had heard its rebirth after a woman becomes a mother.
     

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