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    Indusladies reminds me of my days of innocence

    Back then I posted under another screen name

    I enjoyed milky-coffee with honey and cocao along peanut butter and cocount oil on whole wheat toast

    Was 20 pounds lighter and could wear anything I wanted

    Wore flaired jeans and baby-Ts, sometime tunics

    This place really reminds me of my days of innocence

    Where I was reassured lot of marriages are happy

    Where I was reassured lot of husbands are angels

    Indusladies reminds me of my days of innocence

    How nice and reassuring all the ladies and gents are

    Sure you are in a virtual online world

    Sure lot of your culture is different from what I face

    But somehow you are an extended part of my family

    Somehow like an innocent child I am still hopeful I will get all that joy and innocence back

    Really, Indusladies give me hope

    Just to be existing online

    When I come here some how I feel I am thrust back into the past

    When everything now seems so rosy

    So much potential

    So many hopes

    So many dreams

    I still see the same people I did from my days of innocence

    We used to have blog section and I would enjoy writing all sorts of stories

    Still love writing

    Now because of my experience I discovered painting

    Hopefully I'll post a new painting soon

    These are trying times

    Like putting dirty clothes in washing machine

    Squeezing, shaking, swishing side-to-side

    Then coming out squeaky clean like a pure, innocent, squeaky doll


    I love you all!
     
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    Here is the secret of why such a lot of happy marital stories seem the same. And why it is not easy to get a solution for a particular unhappiness from anybody else (on an internet forum).

    Leo Tolstoy's book Anna Karenina, begins with:Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.
     
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    How are all happy families alike? Are the family members simply content with one another?
     
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    Hi ChennaiExpress,

    Loved the unique way in which you have expressed your journey with IL. Yes, marriages are such gambles. There are a few who are blissfully happy - I still wonder how many genuinely find that state of being. There are those whose marital lives are a living hell. The rest of us fall somewhere in between - neither white, nor black but different shades of grey at various times of our lives. What would a blissfully happy married life be like? Happy? Great? Boring? I am a greedy person. I love having everything. So I could never be content with just black or just white. I am happy with all those rich shades of grey. Our experiences should not have the power of wiping off our innocence. Keep that child alive inside, love her, nurture her and she will thrive, no matter what the external circumstances and she'll bring a lot of happiness and innate joy with her all through life.
     
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    How to love that innocent child. Will keep her alive and nourish her always.

    I do prefer white through and through.

    One interesting point. In Orthodox Judaism a married woman is not permitted to be intimate starting on the day of her period till 7 days after her period concludes.

    This 12-day physical separation creates a mini-honeymoon each month
     
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