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In life we contact so many people butonly few are very close

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Jun 20, 2010.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    I always wonder how is that in life only some people become very close to us. Some we get attracted immediately we see them ,then slowly become very close to them. Some we see them for ages but are not so close. Is it that we must have had a relation in last birth.

    In our building also there are so many people , but I have not been very close to anyone as I was a working women. After retirement I did not try to mingle much with them. With some only hi and bye and with some , sometimes visit them that too rarely .

    When I had gone for admission for my elder daughter. while I was standing in the Q, one Gentleman was also standing for admission for his son. Since we had to stand for a long time we started talking and he was very humorous and time passed very nicely. After that I got friendly with his wife. They also stay just opposite to our building. From that time we are very close to each other and keep in touch always. We have been friends since 30 years.

    Among on line friends also we know so many but are close to only to some and always keep in touch with them. Miss them when we dont get mail or not able to chat with them.

    Do you feel the same
     
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  2. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    Dear viji ma!

    you are right!

    according to me i don't believe in previous births all much! but also won't say it's all fiction! kannaal paarkkadha varai edhayum namba mudiyaadhae??:rotfl:rotflso my definition would be we are like magnet!
    when get rubbed in sand! (which has many particles) only iron sticks to it!
    so by nature we get attached to the people who has the same wavelength of us!
    and love to be in contact to them always! :thumbsup
     
  3. Meenamohan

    Meenamohan Silver IL'ite

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    Vijima ... What you are thinking is fine ... I agree with you partly. But I want to know whether you miss me or not if not Please miss me .... hahaha
    Vijima just to make it light I am saying these. Take things as it comes. We may thing a person to be very close to us but in reality she might be bad mouthing about you to others who knows. But a person whom we have never met will be of greater help to us in our life. IT IS DESTINY ....

    Like how you have to endure me ....
     
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    Dear Viji,

    Its been a long time since I read your posts. Was wondering where you went then read about your trip and the mystery was solved. Snippets always misses you so keep writing.

    Yeh, it happens to me too. There are few people I connect instantly and with others the connection never happens. I guess its more about the compatibility. When 2 people can talk and laugh and their compatibility matches they become close.

    Have a great day viji.

    regards
     
  5. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Yamini

    Thank youfor the fb and I agree with you. True we are like magnet and get attached to some people

    love
    viji

     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Meena

    I miss you when I dont see you in CM as your post makes everyone smile.
    Rightly you said you dont know who will be of help when we really need them.

    love
    viji


     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Shiva

    Glad to know that you like my posts. I agree with you it all depends on compatibility. Sometimes people whom we have met only for a few mins become very close and whom we have been seeing since long time are not so close

    love
    viji


     
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    gjaya Silver IL'ite

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    Yup Viji aunty, only few people (in my case more than few) :), are very close to me although I have tons of friends.

    I think it is all chemistry. You need to have that chemistry that connection, the wave length match, that will make for a close friend.

    Ohh I hope I am in your close friend list... am i?? :hide:
     
  9. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Jaya

    You are in my close friend's list. How can I forget the days when we used to chat in A to Z. Now I am missing that

    love
    viji
     
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    laddubala Gold IL'ite

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    Gm Vijima and friends,

    Can i also join you people???
     

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