Hi ladies, Looks like my in-laws wants to be here during the last trimester..first of all, I don't have good relation with them due to some past incidents but I have been maintaining harmony from a distance. Second of all, my MIL is not the person who works around the house so I will have to do extra chores such as cooking daily such as morning tiffin, lunch etc (I work so we normally cook once every 2-3 days), clean up etc. Thirdly, they are going to be here which is going to hurt me as I am sure they can't keep quiet and finally, I wanted my mom to be here around delivery as I am more confortable with her more than with my MIL..but they don't seem to understand any of that..they want to be the first ones to see the baby..I understand that it's their grandkid and all..but just for that one reason, do you think I should let them do this and take the crap.. My husband is not strong enough to take the stand and telling them what to do..if I talk, it always becomes fight so I am keeping quiet to keep peace..I am confused and I dpon't want this stress.. Anyone in the same situation? or anyting you have done to overcome this?