@happygolucky22, Even though I have a lot of sympathy for someone who doesn't have a happy married life despite great career, two wonderful kids and so on, I was a bit shocked to see your friend's reaction to a person she came to know only for a week. A person can speak any language but that is not a determining factor for a happy marriage nor someone who is more carried away by the look of a woman. It is in woman's interest to find out whether a person is focused more on her looks only or carrier or financial status. How does she find out he is okay with her kids within a week? Is it a fair assessment? She seems to me in a great hurry to find another partner to prove a point. This may have a serious impact on her ability to take custody of her children. If I were in your shoes, I will ask her to take it easy and go slow in deciding a life partner. Ask her to wait for the divorce proceedings to be over and keep evaluating the person for a while. His request for a child of his own is however reasonable. I agree 100% with the views expressed by @1Sandhya.