I Miss Having Girl Groups..

I am sorry to say, but this is a feeling I always get whenever I read your posts. I feel like, sometimes you contradict yourself.
In some posts, you say you are content with yourself, not looking for new friends or drama anymore, but in this post, it sounds like you yearn for a girls gang. I remember in one post you said you dont really care about visiting exotic places anymore, but in another you sounded very exited about some trip.
I dont know anything about you, but I get a feeling that you are trying to be complacent in life, but inside you might be yearning for a few simple things.
There is always another side of perspective for everything, instead of thinking why am I not having friends, just think that you are in a much happier space sans any drama. You yourself say you are a sensitive person, so its better for you to mingle with only select set of people who matches your bandwidth right? So its actually a good thing you are not in any girls group. Girls group always (or most of the times) comes with unnecessary drama, gossips!

 

I used to envy seeing pictures of girls' trips, but the drama involved seems excessive compared to men's outings. Traveling does offer a different perspective on life, but nowadays, due to social media and marketing, it feels overrated. A few years ago, I closed my Facebook account and opened a new one where I didn't add any people I know. It's solely for dog-related groups, hobby groups, and some neighborhood groups. I never share any of my photos or my family. I don't have Instagram or Twitter, and my life has completely changed. Instead of going on a girls' trip, I happily take my dog for a walk.

 

I go for walks in the evening and always see ladies walking n talking in groups. So much meaningful talks, laughter, sharing stories amongst themselves. I too wish to be like that walking with a friend and sharing little stories here n there. 2 ladies from my society asked me whether they could join me while walking. Though my mind yearns for such walk n talk, I refused them as I wont achieve the benefits of walking if i walk slowly and they wont walk fast.

Regarding ladies groups for trips, i know few ladies from my kids school group who are as eager like me to go on trips. I am the one who can connect them all, but its a big responsibility and I dont have that leadership quality to plan and execute. Also , its not worth the headache/drama that will follow afterwards. Hats off to the ladies who do such planning and execution.

 

I wonder why none of male members here about their missing group.
I hv heard group of married men quietly go to a for of retreat wind up there for the week end! Enjoy booze nice food and spend time in gay abandon and return home effete late sunday night with hangover on the following working day!