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I could use a hug!

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by lifezbeautiful, Oct 14, 2010.

  1. lifezbeautiful

    lifezbeautiful New IL'ite

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    Hello Ladies,

    I don't have a question or need any suggestion.. Just wanted to share my feelings.
    We've been TTC for a few months now.. And this month is so different.

    In the previous months, during the 2WW, I used to always dream about how I would react to the positive HPT and how I would break the news to my DH, parents, in-laws, my bro, friends, cousins etc. I always felt 'this would be my month'. And every time AF came (sometimes late giving me so much of hope), I felt so bad.. sometimes cried myself to sleep. The first time my DH consoled me, the second time he said that I was crazy to worry myself over this and that we will stop TTC if I don't stop stressing myself out. So for the next few months, I kept things to myself.. used to feel bad every time AF arrived and had no one to vent it out to.

    But this month is so different. I don't expect to see a BFP. I don't feel 'this would be my month'. I have no hope like I used to have in the earlier months. But I do feel stressed at times.. I guess I am just trying to suppress my feelings and think negative so that a BFN wouldn't hurt me so bad!

    huh.. I could use a hug..

    Baby dust to all TTC ladies out there!
     
  2. nahid

    nahid New IL'ite

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    ur post is so touching life'zb.....

    full of emotions and feelings...

    my wishes r with u.
     
  3. bellatrix

    bellatrix Silver IL'ite

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    Hi lifezbeautiful
    I can totally understand ur feeling.... My hugs to u.

    Dont think too much about TTC. Try and relax.

    Take care babe

    Baby dust to all TTC...

    Cheers
    Bella
     
  4. PPrasath

    PPrasath Senior IL'ite

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    Tight Hugs...
    i dont see a hug smiley so its cousin smiley for u dear [​IMG]

    Positive vibes and truck load of baby dust on ur way!!

    u ARE going to share the good news soon

    Cheers!
    Thara OOOOXO
     
  5. Vasumathy

    Vasumathy Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Lifezbeautiful,
    Virtual hugs to you dear...
    Those feelings comes to each one of us. Its quite common, nothing different. Just vent out your feelings to your close friends or share with us. We are there to help you support you in the time of need! Stay strong after a cry!
    Be positive. Avoid the negative thinking. Just concentrate on other stuffs beyond TTC. Take up some hobbies, involve yourself in some thing! It will make you feel better.
    Baby dust to you.
     
  6. Drpreethis

    Drpreethis Gold IL'ite

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    Ohh I could hug you ! :) I do feel when you say you hate disappointments.
    Forget about thinking negative, how about thinking this way.. Baby and TTC are not the ONLY things around ! Really. Things will happen when it should, no point in stressing ourselves about it. Just relax, keep moving with life, one day, your HPT will show two fat lines ! :thumbsup

    Do not say, it is easy to write but hard to follow.. Things will not hasten up just because you get worried or stressed, it will only take you deeper into stress. Now, I know that is the last thing you want, isnt ? :)
     
  7. lifezbeautiful

    lifezbeautiful New IL'ite

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    Thank you all so much! I feel much lighter now :)
    You guys are so sweet!
     
  8. saudamini

    saudamini Bronze IL'ite

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    Dear Lifezbeautiful,

    Lot of hugs to you.

    I can truly understand what you are going through, as I have been facing it also. And I used to think I am the only one going thru it!!! :|

    I second Vasu, you should vent out your feelings.

    lots of baby dust

    love
    Saudamini
     
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    prsnfd Bronze IL'ite

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    grihasta New IL'ite

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    I have read that stress too contributes to infertility. Dont stress yourself too much. Divert your attention with other stuff, and try not to think about conceiving too much.
     

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