Wow amazing. I could have written ur post. My husband does not talk about anything except work around the house as though I am a nanny or cleaner or cook. No friendly talks in 8 years. He also does not talk about anything except yell at me about mistakes I have done around the house , things that’s I have not done whether other people are watching or not. But he is fine with kids especially daughter. He asks her to do grown up things which he should be asking me to do like laundry shopping etc. ( only 7 years old ). So he does not like to communicate with me he is just telling me what to do by using kids.