we hve been married for some years now, one day i found him in a room looking at some dirty websites, i closed the door behind him n left him alone although i was upset but as it was the first time i let it go. recently i found that he recorded a **** movie, which i saw accidently. when i asked him he said he doesn't know anything abt it n there is noone else in the house except me n himself. do u men behave like that? is it normal? i know its okay to do n watch such stuff but i felt guilty that my husband is not happy with me. or he is using me. i haven't talked to him since 3 days as i don't know how to react. i hate those mocvies n find them disgusting. please advice what should i do. i really don't want him to behave like a teenager! men please help me out here. is he doing this stuff coz he doesn't find me attractive, or he is not happy with me as i don't behave like those girls on tv? or is he using me? please help!