Husband says i consume!!!

Tell him lightly.. if there's no one to consume... the produce will go waste... how it happens with national food.
You're bringing value to his PRODUCTIVITY.

On a serious note.. cheer up dear and don't take it to heart... a lot of women are home makers and they do so much at home and deserve a paycheck. There are many women who just blow up their husbands salary in mall and spas without any thought.... possibly the love potion is coming down in this marriage... check on refill.

 

It is ur husband's duty to look after u nd his children!!! Husband and wife are alwys dependent on each othr fo some or the othr thing.. it is nt dat one is superior just because he goes out nd earns money.. u r also working at ur home bt unpaid.. nd we wives nevr want a pay fo dat.. bt al we need is understanding, love nd affection as a pay in return!!!! Wat we expext in return is nt at al costly which husbands can not afford at al..!!!! Life wil be more simple nd happy if u make him understand dis.. Say these cool nd calmly.. Bt still if he doesn't want to listen to u, u plz remain happy nd silent.. That is the best counter u can giv him..

 

That was about money or sex?

 

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If not for consumption what is he earning for?? for Contribution to Charity??

Don't worry. sometimes lot of stress at work also makes them speak such words not knowing that they are actually hurting us.

Don't feel bad. You have full rights on your husband's salary.

Shilpama: Sometime in September a proposal has come up to make it mandatory for men to give a certain percentage of their income to their wives who stay back and do household chores. Don't know the current status of the proposal though.

 

Sounds a good idea...!

 

I consume too, but my wife is sensible enough to recognize my contribution in our marriage. And I started 'consuming' only because she asked me to. If you can, take up a job and he'll realize how important 'consumption' is.

 

What BS...you consume?? does he even understand the meaning of marriage? are you not providing him comfort...through cooking..maintaining his home? guys who think like this are not fit for married life...yes i too agree..go on a bandh...stay away from him..dont even let him touch you.

 

Great thing you did! He had two kids with you and still had guts to say such hurtful things! You deserve some respect..and sincere apology from him.
He might have said the bad things when he is in angry mood but still he can't say such things..

 

Wow...

Is it just me or so most guys these days have zero class? What the hell does he mean by consume? I dont get this at all. Mother stays home, takes care of her home, children, cook, clean, be a chauffeur and then endure all this BS?

OP, I say, take a vacation for the weekend. Tell your DH that you need a vacation and he is expected to take care of children from Friday afternoon to sunday evening. He is expected to do all that you do. Then he will realize how hard it is to be a stay at home mom.

Also OP, ask him for suggestions on how to avoid consuming, what ever the hell he means by that. Is he expecting you to work? If yes, is he willing to shell money on a nanny to do things which you were doing before?
Ash him if this is what he wants.