Dear IL's Sometime back i had posted my problem regarding tooooo frequent visits of my SIL to my house. Last week my husband told that SIL is coming to stay with us next month (She is 6 months pregnant with a second baby) and will be staying till she delivers and again 3 months post delivery, all together 6 months. I was really annoyed with this decision my MIL & hubby had made without even asking me, i had an arguement with my husband that day and he told me that I WAS A VERY BAD LADY AT HEART , HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR OTHERS, VERY PROUD OF MY EARNINGS.... and many such things which he never said in these 3 years of married life. He said he is going to throw my money on my face next month(the house we live is leased & money was equally shared by me & him) & I will have to look for other house with my kid,,,,,, he preferes to stay back with MIL & SIL, and for the sake of my son he will visit me once in a month. that was the last he spoke to me and now its almost 10 days he is not talking to me.. being in the same house he is not even seeing me. everyday he drops me to office in his bike, he manages to sit so far that i should not be able to touch him, not even keep my hand on his shoulder, he shruggs it off...... he is sleeping alone in the hall and I am alone with my kid in bedroom, My MIL in her bedroom. This is soo humiliating ,,,, from 10 days I am not at all sleeping ... I am crying alone to an extent that all the area around by eyes & forehead starts aching. My MIL is sooooo happy these days, and now & then she keeps giving that Sarcastic SMILE,,,,,,,,,,,,, reminding me that she has won & I have lost.. I dont know what to do, I love my husband very much........soo much that each days passes as a year to me... If I try to initiate talking to him he walks out, and once said blankly I SHOULD NOT TRY TO TALK TO HIM................... his silence is killing me... I know he will not arrange a seperate house due to financial limitations,,, HOW can i stay in one roodf with him & act like a stranger. The harsh words he told me that day are unforgettable.......... i will never forgive him.............. I have decided not to talk to him again & finish the issue. let him go his way & me mine.. but I am scared that he may start hating me............................ I cannot even think of hating him or being hated byhim... please advice how do i get my love back.??????????????