Hi. I definetely agree with others. I see you really want to save the marriage as you are still willing to forgive and live with him even after seeing how badly he's treating you but he doesn't deserve you dear. You decided to marry him even when your parents were not happy about it. He knew you are from different culture and obviously he can't expect that you change to his culture 100%. Now that he's stuck with an infactuation with another girl at his office, he comes up with all sort of nonsense and puts the blame on you. He doesn't appreciate you. He doesn't respect you. You sure you will be happy with him if he decides to come back to you? And how sure can you be that he won't repeat it with the same or different girls in future? Are you prepared to live feeling insecured all the time? Thank God you have no kids yet (I believe so from your post). You are educated and financially secured. You don't have to beg him for love dear. You are still young. I personally feel you shouldn't waste your time and youth with him then later realize it's best to leave him. Like Sri Vidya mentioned just call up the cell woman and let him undergo hell for the torture you went through. Then say you want to divorce him even if he begs you falling on your feet. I know the pain you would suffer going through a divorce and living away from someone whom you have loved with all your heart. But he's just not worth it. The whole process will be difficult, very difficult but you will over come it and feel proud of yourself. May God give you all the strength you need.