Dear Friends, I m 31 years old married for 3 years. Ours is a love marriage we are from two different states. Initially my family didnt accept the marriage but after that they are fine with it. My hubby was very caring and loving and i never had any doubts on him. i was having blind trust on him. Six months back i suddently realised that he spends somuch time on phone messaging some one. One message i saw from his jr girl in office saying she is all alone at home no one is thr to take care and all. i tried to see the sent messages in his phone but all are deleted. then i fought with him he said she is kid and there is nothing like that. After that one day i cought him talkin to her midnight 3 from balcony thinking that i m sleeping. I stood behind him for 45 mins but he didnt realise that. After that he saw me and told its non of ur business i dont need to tell u anything. Do wat ever u want to do. He stopped talking to me and kept passcode for his phone so that i cant open that. He kept on talking to her or msg. After that i went to my home town and by the time i came back he started staying with his bro and told me that he dont want to live with me. I begged him that i cant live with out him as i love him somuch. But he didnt listen to me and transferred his job to some other place and its been 5 months that he is away. If i call for some 10 times he picks my call once and replys very rude saying that he dont want to talk to me. He told to his parents that i m not following his culture and tradition so he is not getting any feelings on me. I am a chartered accountant with 5 years post qualification experience. Still i never show off all that and always homely. He dont like me wearing jeans which i never wear. Still he went and created roumers on me saying that i m not family oriented and all. I prefer to cook for him and even used to pack his lunch. I used to take care of him somuch. I never let him go to office with out break fast. Now he says if he stays for one years away from me he gets divorce. he dont need my concent. Can any one tell me the legal rights for a wife? I really dont want to divorce him in any case. I believe in marriage and never want to break up. I cant think of any other person in my life. Can you all please suggest me on this?