Husband giving too much money to parents...am i over reacting?

I am sorry, but never do that. That is a really bad thing to do. Sorry, felt upset reading that.

 

You move your money from ur account in US to india account every month as soon as u get the salary.
Tell your husband its his responsibility to take care of house and kids and also his parents. Lets share equally.
Call your bank in india and just block the atm card saying it got missed.

What ever he gives for housework in US, you also share the same dollors. Equality and a space for the freedom. Give and take. Let your husband has a trust that you are not going to give it to anyone else.

The 3 stored house is not a bad investment, after fil and mil you will get the share atleast 2 stored. May be one stored to your BIL, though he has not invested.

Simple no one can access your money, unless you prefer it to do.

Thanks