Hi all, i m new to this forum n wanted to share someting with ya all...i am a working woman in TX and came with my husband 5 yrs back to US....we both have been working since then and earn a fair amount together. I always trusted my husband so never even bother to look into my salary account or so. He used to tell me every month that you got this much salary and i was like okk....once in a while i would login n see n it was all fine.As soon as we came to US, he said that he would like to pay his father loan of few lakhs n i was like ok not a problem...then he paid his loans after then his parents said they would like to construct their home..its was just one story at my marriage n they made now 3 stories above that which cost them 25 lakhs out of which my father in law took 10 lakhs loan and rest my husband paid which he denies saying that he paid 8 lakhs only but i know he paid 15 lakhs coz my father in law already took loan.btw my FIL is country head in some company and earns 50-60,000 per month. i have a brother in law but he does no job...anyways i was still ok....all the atm cards is with my FIL for our indian account including mine and my husband used to transfer money to these accounts and he could easily withdraw the money.then after this,my MIL's brother got sick and he needed money fir operation for which my in laws again told my husband to transfer money which he did again in lakhs. And now they are saying they want to open a shop for my BIL and again wants money in lakhs which my husband said he would pay....n then he is saying he will give money for his marriage too...now i am getting concerned and started questioning him about this that how much would we keep on transferring..he gets very angry at this and says that my parents dont have money and i will send them....i have one kid and second is on the way...i am asking him to save something for us too....he is paying house expenses from both of our accounts so my account is also getting used up....n i m not sure where my FIL's monthly salary is going?he always yells at me that they are my parents and i can do anything for them...am i doing something wrong here? I did not question him in last 5 yrs...its just that my in laws are going on n on o on with one or the other demand that i spoke now....i m seriously thinking where i am wrong?