Ladies... I wanna know the best way to proceed in this unexpected situation. We are close family friends, like the guys are good buddies that meet every weekend. We ladies go out together often with our kids. Our kids are same age and bond well and I can call the wife one of my few closest friends here. We have been friends for more than 15 years. Recently my friend was out on a business trip, kids were at our house for sleep over and the men had gone out drinking. They crashed at the friends house and early morning I get a creepy call from my friend's husband. My husband was there at the house but sleeping. This guy was completely drunk and was flirting. I was so shocked I disconnected the call. He kept messaging and calling me, but I did not respond. It stopped after a while. Initially I thought to keep this to myself, but when my husband came home, I couldn't and told him what happened. He questioned the friend and the guy apologized and askes us to keep this from my friend (the wife). Now my husband is so pissed off he says we are not friends with that family any more. We are part of a big family group and it is impossible to stop all communication. We have lots of sleep overs with the kids and when the wife comes back what is the best way to handle this situation? This guy got drunk and totally spoiled our relationship. I am also shocked this guy might have had these feelings hidden all this while when we were together. The kids are so close and I do not intend to miss a great friend for this guy's stupidity. And when she comes back and wants to hang over at her house, what do I do? Pls share best way to handle this? I am so confused right now.